Have you ever felt like your heart was broken beyond repair?
Do you find it hard to believe in love again?
You finally meet the person whom you connect with on a deep level. A relationship blooms, your heart fills with hope and elation, then the unspeakable happens and the relationship ends. It is simply catastrophic. It hurts so deeply on a visceral level, making it feel like your heart has been ripped out. It leaves you standing alone in the world, wondering what just happened. What should you do? Hang your head in despair, holler at the world, become reckless or stay indoors and never leave the house again? You simply feel like you can never love again.
Well, you can love again. But you have to open that door first.
The heart heals itself. The human body and mind will heal, everything heals. This is a known medical fact. If we didn't heal we would all be dead from the slightest of wounds.
The way I see it, there are two doors; one is the prison you've put yourself in and the other is freedom. To believe again is to live a life of optimism, joy and positivity. To live in your prison, bitter and angry, is a life of fear, hatred and negativity.
Only you can choose which path you would like to live in.
Love will find you again and it will be better than you could have ever imagined. But it will only happen if you believe again, there is no other way. Your special someone is out there, everyone has one, regardless of looks, race or gender.
Believe again and it will happen.
J A Boulet - February 2, 2020
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